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Like everyone else, lonely hearts raise or lower their standards according to their own circumstances. Young men have low expectations because they don't have much wealth to offer. Older women are similarly undemanding, because of their reduced attractiveness. But the lonely hearts columns seem to amplify one important tactic of the mating fnider lying.
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